Skill 01.16: Listening

Written on 07/04/2025
Tiffany Andras

Listening goes beyond hearing words—it requires full engagement, accurate interpretation of messages, and appropriate responses.

Effective listening enhances relationships, reduces misunderstandings, and fosters collaboration.

Leaders who master this skill demonstrate empathy, validate concerns, and make informed decisions based on genuine understanding.

Practical Exercise: The “Listen, Pause, Respond” Method

Next time you engage in a conversation, practice these three steps:

  1. Listen Actively – Maintain eye contact, avoid interruptions, and focus entirely on the speaker.
  2. Pause Before Responding – Take a brief moment (3-5 seconds) after they finish speaking to process their message fully.
  3. Respond Thoughtfully – Paraphrase what they said to confirm understanding (“So what you’re saying is…”), then provide your response.

Action Step: In your next conversation, consciously apply the Listen, Pause, Respond method and observe how it improves the interaction.