Grow Through What You Go Through: Embracing Resilience in Leadership

Written on 06/10/2024
Lt. Brian Ellis

Amidst the harsh, unyielding surfaces of rocky landscapes, you’ll find trees that have somehow managed to sprout and thrive through cracks in solid rock. Against all odds, these trees demonstrate nature’s indomitable spirit and innate resilience. This image, mighty and enduring, is a metaphor for leadership and life. Against all odds, is found everywhere throughout nature. From the coral reefs’ sensitivity to temperature changes, they are still finding ways to survive by hosting different types of heat-resistant algae. Then there’s the pine tree, which has adapted to thrive in environments where wildfires are frequent. Yet another is tardigrades, withstanding extreme temperature ranges beyond what we would think life forms could handle.  While your first question might be what a tardigrade is, one thing is sure: nature finds a way.

My life experiences have been far from perfect, but how I see it is perfection hasn’t been mankind’s way. Perfection might just be a psychological trap leading us to misery and inaction, keeping us in mind traps of not being good enough or needing more of something before executing a plan. We live in an imperfect world, where countless examples are seen throughout the history of the tragedy of mankind, yet we still find a way forward. Molded by a rigorous career in law enforcement, I have encountered numerous leaders and teams facing seemingly insurmountable challenges. What separates those who flourish from those who falter is not the nature of the obstacles they face but how they respond to them. Like the resilient trees growing in adverse conditions, the most successful leaders adapt, overcome, and thrive, regardless of their environment.

Adapting to Challenges

Adaptability is not merely about survival; it’s thriving in impossible ways. It involves seeing beyond the immediate confines of a challenge and finding ways to grow despite them. We often operate in physically and mentally demanding environments in professions like the military, professional sports, and public safety. I have shared common stories with a retired athlete and a Navy Seal; while the uniform is drastically different, the people problems we encounter remain the same. The leaders (regardless of profession or rank) who excelled could pivot their strategies, sometimes on the fly, to respond to changing conditions in the moment. This same principle applies in the boardroom, living room, or anywhere life is pressing on you.

In business, as in nature, the environment is continuously evolving. Market conditions shift, new technologies emerge, and consumer behaviors change. Recent years have been a significant test of corporate adaptability. Companies that quickly adapted to remote work and restaurants that pivoted to take-out and outdoor seating shifted their business models or found innovative ways to reach their customers. This is the adaptability of weathering a storm and pivoting on demand.

Overcoming Adversity

Overcoming adversity requires more than grit and perseverance; it requires a mindset shift. Stoic philosophy emphasizes the ability to endure hardship without complaint and offers valuable lessons to be resilient in the moment. Stoics teach us that we cannot control external events, only how we respond to them. The most resilient leaders view every obstacle as an opportunity to learn and grow.

This mindset shift is critical when facing professional setbacks or personal challenges. Instead of yielding to despair, resilient leaders look for lessons amid hardship. They ask, “What can this teach me?” This proactive approach helps them navigate current difficulties and prepares them for future challenges. They see that the obstacle is the way or perhaps the sign that the current path is a dead end, and a new path needs to be forged.

Thriving in Any Environment

Thriving in any environment might sound overly ambitious or impossible, but at the very least, we must adopt a continuous growth and learning mindset. We create less anxious environments by embodying a culture supporting innovation, encouraging risk-taking, and rewarding creativity. In special operations, we relied heavily on debriefs, regardless of whether a mission was a success or failure. Each debrief was an opportunity to dissect what happened and why, expanding the learnability as every team member has different learning lenses from every incident. Only when vulnerability is present do those opportunities become a shared experience.

Similarly, in business, creating a learning orientation helps teams thrive. This might mean investing in training programs, fostering coaching opportunities, or encouraging cross-functional collaboration. However, without a strategy around education itself, it is just time away from work and a way to support individualism, taking us further away from teamwork. Being intentional about what and how we teach our employees is critical to the behaviors we desire and expect in the workplace. Finally, it means leading by example. Leaders who are open about their learning processes and willing to show vulnerability inspire their teams to embrace growth and change.

Call to Action

Now, reflect on your leadership journey. How are you adapting to the challenges before you? Are you bending under pressure, or are you, like the tree, growing through adversity? Are you actively seeking opportunities to learn and evolve personally and professionally?